Soul Medicine

Before I begin my thoughts here I would like to share with you about the Solar Flare energies hitting the earths atmosphere this past week. One of them the strongest since 2006. This energy is said to bring powerful magnetic energies into the earths atmosphere and to mess up GPS, cellphones, etc. BUT we know WE are also electromagnetic beings and many are experiencing the intensity of these solar flares, this powerful electromagnetic sun energy!

My personal suggestion is to be aware of this, along with the most recent full moon it can be VERY uncomfortable - and to go into quiet meditation whenever possible - it helps.

Antagonism, hurt feelings, a power-filled mass of fire energy coming from deep within your being - and basic all around intensity of whatever is prevalent for you - are all effects. BREATHE. Surround yourself in Love.



I love discussing life after life - or rather the continuum of our soul selves. It is a favorite subject and one which I discuss often with my clients. I have experiences  of overwhelming proof and many 'past life' experiences. I have also traveled back and forth between the layers or rather dimensions - which would no doubt make a believer out of anyone.

I love my purpose, my work, yet it is all about one thing - to create opportunities for others to know their souls, to see their eternal beingness, to understand this journey which at many times can appear unfair, painful, etc. As well as many times appear enormously wonderful! And when seeking understanding thru the human mind, this journey may appear all too non-sensical - yet, when seeking understanding through our soul level, we find peace.

Death is the ongoing teacher - the mystery above all mysteries for human man to fear due to the deep seeded ignorance surrounding this unknown. Yet, I do not believe it is an unknown.

Souls come to this earth journey to heal experiences & relationships from previous lifetimes, and in this process, the soul awareness is raised. When we are home in soul beingness, we are not 'perfect', as the illusion may think - we are who we are - but without judgement. If we are mean here in this earth body, in our soul beingness we see the meanness, yet choose a life where we set up the opportunities to move through this non loving trait.

My favorite aspect, which I mention often to those who know me, are our 'pods'. Our immediate soul beings who we are one with - the beings who we come back with time after time.....the ones who we love and who love us unconditionally - yet unconditionally, without judgement, is all we know in our soul beingness. Judgement is a human trait.

For me and my clients who can feel the remembering, death is a going home. The soul separates from the human vehicle and leaves the body to go home, to this other dimension where all souls live, heal, thrive.

This earth walk is school. It is whatever you need it be. Our understanding in this process allows us to walk through the divine set up with Faith that not only have we destined our own life maps - but we have implemented the answers also - it takes courage, courage will lead one through & to the answers.

It is a privilege to be in human form here - not because few are chosen, but because ones who choose this earth school are choosing the densest and most difficult place to do our soul healing work.

People ask me all the time - if this is so hard then, why not just go home where its all about unconditional love? Because it takes this journey here, on this dimension called earth to have all the relationship stuff, the emotional stuff, the stuff stuff stuff we need in order to learn what we are able to bring our vibration into purer form. At home, we are. Here, we work.

Think of the analogy of going to work each day if you go outside the home, into the work force of many other personalities - yet when you  come home at the end of the day, like minded energies are hopefully surrounding you and your energies can rest. Or perhaps there is one room you love and feel at peace in - you are still you, but you are no longer bombarded with the outside stuff. When you 'die' & go home, you are still you; but lovingly accepted by yourself and others thru non-judgement and simply being.

Okay, dying. This soul separation from the body. I am a midwife for this process. We have birthing midwives, which is very wise because the coming into this world is extremely 'stunning' for a soul. A dark room, the quiet, the love, the faith, the scents, the warmth, the mothers heart beat - all imperative for a gentle welcoming here. Yet, there is a social oversight in not having a midwife for ones deathing process. Dying can be very hard work. Yet, if prepared, through hypnotherapy, guidance, beliefs and practice; it can be a peaceful and loving and beautiful experience.

I would love to see the deathing process be as celebrated with love as one's birth. To be able to say; your work is done. You are now able to go home to love, to God, to let go of this human form and allow your beautiful soul to soar! Light candles, play soft beautiful music, shine love into the deathing room, show no fear - for the other dimension I call home is most beautiful, loving, glorious place one cannot even imagine.

If you have a loved one in their active dying process, as you love them, sit with them, be with them; whisper gently - see the Light? Do not be distracted - pay attention to the Light, those who have gone before you will welcome you with love. Let's think of peace now, of love, pay attention to love, to the feelings of love - breathe into the Light, allow the warmth of it to comfort you. That's right, good job. Other souls are waiting to greet you, you are deeply loved.

My mother loved golf and as she made her way through her  ADP, I would guide her to a golf course - to a great tee shot, to the imagination of a beautiful par 4 and the scope of the greens and the hills and the beauty of a fresh mowed green. She settled right into her process, relaxing into the familiar...then as she moved deeper into her process, as with all beings, we bring them into the Light, into the visioning of purple/amethyst rays, of white light which will fill them, become more familiar to them, attract them/guide them/call them into Divine Slumber.

Remember, our dying ones hear everything. Our loved ones in comas hear everything. It is imperative this known fact is honored for a peaceful transition.

I promise you home is magnificent beyond your wildest dreams! I promise you this is school and home is beyond any definition of Love we can manage in our human minds.

with big love,
Deborah

The Imperfection of Perfection ...OR..... The Only Perfection is Love

I see humans suffer from what could be called the disease of perfection. It is such a huge yet simple subject I have been wondering how to approach it. Here is my effort:

The only perfection is love. It is eternal. It is all that matters. To be loving, to act loving, to respond in love, to have faith in the eternal existence of love as the essence of each of us.  Love is that which heightens us to Itself, Love is what bridges us from heart to heart, Love is what kicks our weak little egos out the door and welcomes in harmony and ease. Love.

I use to have a bumper sticker on my car - creating heaven on earth.  I believe many suffer from this concept also. It is misleading - thinking we are here to create a heaven like society - when we believe this; we see things, actions, people, experiences as wrong when they are not heaven like according to our individual perceptions. We are constantly seeing others, judging others as ones we will have nothing to do with because they are not perfect, not following this 'right' action, not taking  this road - so we walk away. When we believe we are here to create heaven on earth we are seeking to change our exterior in order for it to conform to heaven, with all the traits, experiences, etc. that this 'other side' is like  - or what we may believe the other side is like.

Living life believing there is a need for a perfect earth creates divisions, divides us and builds barriers. Perfection is heaven and all else is not. 

When we seek a perfect world;

Students leave great teachers because the teacher has been diagnosed with a horrible disease and if they were really together they would not be getting that disease, can't they make themselves better? - I believe this is one reason Ram Das chose the road he did- to teach in a very public way that perfection lies within how WE individually respond to life and call upon love to carry us.

When we seek a perfect world:

There are bad and good experiences.

There are bad and good people.

When we seek a perfect world:

We are mad at ourselves when we feel or judge ourselves to be  less than -

When we seek a perfect world we admire those we feel we cannot acsend to, those we say are better than us, know more than us, are more heaven like than us.

When we seek a perfect world:

We find fault with this one.
We judge.
We scale. We build levels. We create status.
We fear that which does not live up to what we perceive to be perfect.

Our perfection has nothing to do with our bodies or clothes or homes or jobs or health. Our perfection has nothing to do with what we do - our perfection is HOW we perceive, it is an interior awareness. Perfection is found deep within our souls. It is that awareness of the Divine Perfection of Love Itself which when we are aware of It and bridge our thinking, body, mind and heart to an awareness of Its Presence - we FEEL relief, we FEEL a glowing lift from all burdens, all misconceptions, all that is NOT of the Divine Perfection.

To believe that we are here in order to create this earth to become heaven like and  in the process to dismiss all that is not like Itself - is to dismiss the exact purpose of being a spiritual being in a human experience here in this dimension.  We come here to have the exact relationships and experiences that we have - we cannot have them anywhere else. It is only in this dimension, in this place called earth that we can see so blatantly the dark and Light - that we can see with such tactile and palpable existence how the ego, how fear, how that which is NOT of the Light can be. It is ONLY here, on this earth, in this sometimes challenging and amazing existence that we can BECOME that which we seek. The challenges which are the teachers, the rough times, the darkness; hold the lessons, hold the sacred availability of our very own expansion! It is so exciting to see the polarity which is offered here in this dimension as Divine Opportunities to Become that which is Love.

When we desire for everything to be nicy nice - for our worlds to be without negativity, challenges, disease...etc - then we seek to take away the very essence of this earth school. We seek to kick the teacher out of the room and think we can do it all on our own! We have to see the negative and take self responsibility for our perceptions of it  in order to expand our consciousness, in order to raise our individual awareness of Spirit.

This does not mean life is not wonderful - life IS wonderful when we see perfection within OURSELVES.  Only within yourself. Seek the harmony of feeling, emoting this blissful state of Divine Perfection from within your own heart and then you will be living as close to heaven like existence as possible on this earth plane. Recognize love.

All too many people seek the perfection of someone outside themselves - they build altars to their therapists, their ministers, their Gurus - they build altars to their diseases, their labels, their stories. Build only one altar - an altar to the Divine Perfection of Love within your own heart. And yet............the divine perfection is, that one cannot build an altar to/with Love within ones self until you learn that building an altar to anything else does not work. 

Hence, this necessary journey here on this beautiful dimension which offers us perfection in the imperfection life of living in human bodies -

Seek the love in every experience you have.  Find gratitude for the imperfections which unto themselves rattle your ego in order for you to choose to seek the Love which is your very own essence and the purity of Spirit Itself.

'To Love!